Thursday, November 11, 2010

I think Allen is in a hurry....

To come into this world...

I had to go to L&D the other night because I was having contractions every 5-7 minutes for a few hours. I called my dad and he came over and watched the kids for us while we went. When we got there, I got hooked up to all of the monitors and was asked the usual questions. They monitored me for about an hour and I had 6 good contractions. My nurse gave me the ffn test and that came back negative, so I am safe for at least a few more weeks. She also checked me and I am at a good 2cm and my cervix is soft and thinning. Contractions were still coming so they gave me a shot of Terbutaline. I hate that shot, it gives me the shakes so bad. After about 10 minutes the contractions were dying and things were looking good. My nurse came in and said that if I didn't have any contractions for 45 minutes, she would let me go home. About 50 minutes later I was signing my discharge papers.

I have had a strong feeling this whole pregnancy that this little guy will make his appearance between 34-36 weeks. So maybe these contractions are just the beginning of something, who knows. But I'm supposed to be on some sort of bed rest but I have no idea how to do that with a 3 year old in preschool and a 2 year old. So I'm trying to take it easy....

Saturday, November 6, 2010

31 weeks...

This week, your baby measures over 16 inches long. He weighs about 3.3 pounds and is heading into a growth spurt. He can turn his head from side to side, and his arms, legs, and body are beginning to plump out as needed fat accumulates underneath his skin. He's probably moving a lot, too, so you may have trouble sleeping because your baby's kicks and somersaults keep you up. Take comfort: All this moving is a sign that your baby is active and healthy.



How far along: 31 Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: 2lbs
Size of the baby: The weight of 4 Navel Oranges. Allen is measuring in at 4lbs 5oz and is 16.5 inches long.
Sex: All Boy!
Maternity clothes: Of course!
Sleep: none at all...
Movement: All the time. He is rarely calm.
Food cravings: Nacho Cheese Doritos & Sierra Mist.
Food aversions: none right now..
Morning sickness: nope...
Symptoms: OMG where do I begin... My hips are hurting so bad I cry, My hamstrings feel like I have pulled them, Allen is constantly kicking me in my ribs and Ive been so tired.
Labor signs: Lots of Braxton Hicks and a few mild contractions.
Belly button in or out: In
What I miss: Seeing my feet and being able to sleep through the night.
What I'm looking forward to: My appt on the 24th.
Milestones: Having a healthy pregnancy so far.

Friday, November 5, 2010

10 Habits of Happy Moms...

I saw this article and really enjoyed it, So I thought I would share!
1. Find time for yourself
Happy moms know they deserve a little time to themselves. When you know you're going to have a little room to breathe later on in the day, it's easier to take on everything that's in front of you. Our formula? Take 2 hours out for yourself every 3 days.

2. Don't make a happy baby, happier!
We all do it...you see your baby's head at what you're sure is an unnatural angle snoozing in their car seat. You just know they'll be happier if their head was straight. So you move them. And they wake up. Then they scream. Or, you see them playing happily in the sand. You just know they'll be happier if they played on the slide. So you interrupt them and move them to the slide. And they're angry. And they let you know they're REALLY angry. Here's the thing, they were happy. It can be hard to do, but if your kid's not complaining, leave them be! Happy baby = Happy Mommy.

3. Embrace the mess
So your house doesn’t look like something out of a magazine. That just means it’s cozy! Your children have hands coated in dirt from the playground and faces coated in spaghetti from dinner. It’s not gross—it’s an adorable photo op! Life is about how you look at things. Next time that pile of laundry that’s been sitting on the chair for three days starts to get you down, just remember… it’s probably feng shui.

4. Make time for your friends
Your family can survive without you while you make time to see friends. You are a woman with your own identity and its imperative that you and that identity go out for some margaritas once in awhile!
5. Stop blowing yourself off
While you may be the one taking care of everyone, it doesn't mean you can't also get what you want. Help your family realize your needs are as important as theirs and when mom is happy, everyone is happy, but when mom is not....

6. Get in the zone
Take 10 minutes to do absolutely nothing but rest. Take a break from your day, close your eyes, breath in slowly and deeply through your nose and exhale through your mouth. Repeat several times. Think about a place you love that is relaxing, spend 10 minutes there in your mind.

7. Remember your dreams and goals
Everyday we are encouraging our children to reach their full potential. But sometimes in the midst of being a parent we forget about our own dreams and goals. The best thing you can do to encourage a child is to lead by example –happy moms hold on to their dreams and goals and don’t let go.

8. Be lighthearted
Don't be the uptight mom. Be silly and dance with your kids to their music or tv show tunes. Be romantic and pull your partner into a waltz. Dance in slippery socks in your kitchen while making dinner.

9. Bend the Rules
One of the best parts of making the rules is occasionally breaking them. Maybe it’s taking your child out of school for half a day on their birthday, or waking them up in the middle of the night to see a sky of shooting stars. Happy moms know how to turn the mundane into fun.

10. Mind your own business
Concentrate on creating your life the way you want it. Take care of you and your family. Don’t get overly concerned with what other people are doing or saying. Don’t get caught up with gossip or name calling. Stop seeking the validation of others and be confident in yourself.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

30 Week Appt...

I had my 30 week appt this morning and everything is going great with Allen. He is still measuring big and is weighing in at 4lbs 5oz and is Breech. Dr said that there is still enough time for him to flip around and to not be worried, which I'm not worried unless he doesn't flip.. He said he would hate to have to give me a c/s with my last kid.. lol
Dr also said that if he is still measuring big, he might want to induce me around 38 weeks so right after Christmas. I told him that I have a feeling that he will come earlier and he said Great! lol I have gained a total of 2lbs this whole pregnancy. If Allen is still breech if and when I go into labor or start my induction, we will try a version to turn him. I want to try everything I can so I don't end up with a c-section...

My appts are getting closer and closer together! 3 weeks till my next appt!

Halloween!

The kids had a blast Trick or Treating this year and scored on candy! If I had to put a weight on the kids candy, I would say at least 3-4lbs each. Here are some pics from the kids night!








Enjoy!